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Once upon a time, back in the early 1800′s, a small family picked out a nice plot of land to settle.  The menfolk cut down some trees and shaped some timbers.  The womenfolk helped pull up some rocks from a nearby stream.  Together, they built a small farmhouse.  It was a modest house, kitchen, living room, porch, cellar, and a crawlspace upstairs just tall enough for the children to stand upright.  Soon, the crawlspace became bedrooms.

Fast-forward through a few decades.  The farmhouse is passed down and sold.  Land is surveyed and plotted.  A lake is dug.  Railroad tracks curve around the perimeter.

In the 1930′s, a small family moves in and they take a ridiculous amount of photos.  A new car.  A new bathing suit.  A new hairstyle.  Siding on their little house.  Adventures in the lake.  Chickens in a newly constructed coop.  Hay in the surrounding 23 acres.  The family sold it and flourished for a while.

Sixty years later, the house is sold again.  This time to a couple who enjoy renovating old properties.  They rip off the siding and are delighted to find original stone and timberwork underneath.  They take off the original roof and replace it with a metal one, also extending the crawlspace to a full two stories.  They add a garage.  They add another addition with a new living room, dining room, office, and a master suite upstairs.  They dig out a full basement.  The chicken coop and barn have fallen into disrepair.  The hay farm is gone, replaced by acres of cedar trees.

The wooden siding is the addition. The stonework in the middle is the original farmhouse.

In the late 1990′s, an Englishman, his new wife, and her two children from a previous marriage come look at the house and the land.  His wife trains horses and they see the potential for having a boarding stable.  The children are tremendously excited about the lake and the land and the huge house that just looks cool.  So, they buy it.

So, my freshman year of high school, I moved into a farmhouse.

 

View from the front porch. Old outdoor kitchen, wood pile, and (unfinished) Guest House.

Wood pile with the old chicken coop, guest house and old garage in the background

Outdoor kitchen

Creek

The Lake

 

I moved away when I went to college.  I moved to Atlanta after that.  Now, nearly thirteen years later, I have returned to that same farmhouse with my husband and baby daughter.  It’s surreal to be living in the same bedrooms, eating in the same kitchen, walking these same grounds…  I’m still processing and getting used to the idea that we [live] here now.

However.

In the meanwhile, we finally fixed our rooms up.

 

My old bedroom - Master Bedroom and Nursery

Yes, the rooms are enormous.

Standing in the nursery corner

Olivia's space

 

I picked this room when we first moved in because it’s at the end of the hall upstairs and it’s hardwood.  It’s smaller than my brother’s room and he had direct access to our bathroom, but I loved my privacy and I loved the hardwoods.  And I adored that shelf.  See the shelf on the wall in the pictures above?  That’s where the original roof met the house.  The renovators just capped it and turned it into a shelf that runs the entire length of the hallway and the outside of my bedroom.

 

Extinct Red Pine Floorboards. My room and the hallway has these.

My brother's old room - Living Room, Craft Area, Library, Media Center and Office

Standing in the Office area

My craft table

Office

 

The rooms are L-shaped, with a closet in each corner.  So all of our clothing, old baby stuff, and kitchen boxes are stored in those closets.  We plan on repainting both rooms at some point.  We want to leave them as nice guest rooms when we move out, so we have ideas.

 

I plan on filling this jar with buttons

 

I wasn’t going to take a picture of the bathroom because, well…bathroom.  However, that shelf in my room and the hallway?  It’s in the bathroom because that’s where the original house ended.  But, they didn’t encase that one.  So this is what’s underneath the wood and drywall:

Original Timber and Plaster-work. See the chisel marks?

Neat, huh?

Anyway, that’s the skinny on where we live.  I’ll try to get more pictures in the coming weeks of the horses and the rest of the farm.

So I leave you with this.  This has been my gentle reminder throughout this whole move and Stephen being away and Olivia adjusting.

Always

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I feel so behind on life lately.  I owe you guys so many posts.  Olivia’s birthday party, our move, a review on an awesome new hand-loomed wrap, updates on us in general…

The list goes on.

Suffice to say, we are alive.  We made it to St. Louis in one piece.

Since then, things have been chaotic at best.  We occupy two rooms in my parents’ house and, since Olivia naps in one of them, I can only do so much unpacking in that room at a time.  Meanwhile, Stephen still has to put in a normal work week in the other room and I don’t want to interrupt him or make him feel like he needs to get up and help me.  Plus, the closets in both rooms are still packed with other things my parents are planning on moving so we can use them.

So.

Plus we all got sick.  Some sort of weird bug that gave us all scratchy throats and headaches.  I’m [just now] feeling better.

But.

Olivia’s reaction to the move is coming out in her nighttime sleeping.  Or should I say lack thereof.  She fights bedtime [hard] then wakes up multiple times during the night then wakes up at 6.30am.  This is the baby that use to go to bed at 8.30pm, wake up once, and sleep until 9am.  It also doesn’t help that we are all in the same room so she can see me when she peeks out of her crib and her crib is by the window where the sun rises and there’s no window shade there yet.

Boom, crack of dawn baby awake.

Mama not pleased.

However, I’m not really complaining.  I’m just venting a little and trying to explain why I haven’t been here or Twitter or Facebook.  We’re just wading through the boxes and bags and furniture and trying to figure out the best plan to regain some semblance of normalcy.

Plus, the leaving of Atlanta hit me harder emotionally than I thought it would.  I mean, I knew I’d be sad.  I didn’t know that I would randomly choke up or fight back tears at odd times of the day or night.  I think I need to just collapse somewhere and have a proper cry about it.  I still know this is the best decision for our family – and that was reaffirmed watching Olivia play with her cousins and the sheer and utter joy on her face as she crawled around after them.  The other half of it, the leaving of Stephen’s family part of it, sucks and hurts and was a [lot] harder than I’d envisioned.

Still, I am so incredibly happy to be home.  I was able to spend my brother’s birthday actually with him for the first time in 13 years.  My mom is getting to sit on the floor and play with her granddaughter.  My stepdad, who has only seen Olivia twice before now, is actually getting to know her, finally.  This is good.  And this was right.

There is nagging in the back of my head.  are you SURE? what if…? what if…?

But I argue with it and quell it and put my head down and sort through some more boxes.

I promise I’ll come back and write lots more.  I need to.  Or I’ll explode.  For now, we are here.  We are making it.  There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

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Wow.

So.  Moving.

Original plan: Rent a truck.  Pack all our stuff into said truck.  Stephen drive the truck and I drive our SUV with the baby overnight from Atlanta to St. Louis the weekend AFTER Mother’s Day.  We leave his car in Atlanta and he fly back his first time he has to be back for his once a month thing.

Stephen started looking up prices of the various truck rental companies and, shockingly, it’s anywhere from $500 to $1500 for one of those beasts.  Even a small one.

Well.

Crap.

We hemmed and hawed and started hashing out alternative solutions.  A while back, my mom had offered to bring her two-horse trailer in addition to her huge truck to help us move since she can’t stay the entire week between Olivia’s birthday (!!) and the proposed move date.  I told her “maybe” and we left it open.

Eventually we came up with two possible solutions.  1) Mom bring her trailer and we pack up as much as will fit in her trailer, her truck, our SUV and Stephen’s little two door coupe.  Then mom leave and head back while Stephen and I stay here and clean up the house, make repairs, etc. and we stay with his parents. 2) Same as 1 except with me and the baby heading back with mom and Stephen staying here to clean/repair and put in a full week at work.

I called my mom, who is coming into town this weekend for Olivia’s birthday (!!), and left a message on her machine asking her if it was possible for her to bring her horse trailer.  I told the machine the ideas and apologized that this cut a week off their timeline to get my and my brother’s old bedrooms cleared out for us to take over.  I told her if that didn’t work to let me know and we’d figure something else out.

That was on Sunday.

Monday was our anniversary.  Yesterday.  I hadn’t heard from mom all day long and was beginning to have a sinking feeling in my gut.  What if something was wrong with the trailer?  What if she couldn’t bring it after all?  What if they absolutely could not get those rooms cleared in time?  We just potentially cut a whole week from our timeline?  What if we can’t get everything packed?  What about Olivia’s birthday party?

What if

What if

What if

We went out for dinner for our anniversary to one of our favorite brewpubs that we will miss dearly.  We had an amazing time.  I drank champagne.  I took migraine medication so I could have one of their amazing soft pretzels.  Stephen’s parents came over to our house and hung out with the little monster.

On our way back home, my mom called.  When I answered the phone, all I could hear was lots of talking and rumbling in the background.  She proceeded to happily tell me that my brother and a friend of his had procured a 24-foot trailer with a fully finished interior for my mom to hook to her truck and bring to Atlanta this weekend.

Twenty. Four. Feet.

Fully. Finished.

This means sealed and waterproof and nice.

The bedrooms may or may not be completely cleared out by this weekend but the promise is there to do their best.  My brother is heading over there this weekend to help while Mom is here in Atlanta.  I told them as long as I had a place to sleep with the baby, it didn’t matter.

So.

New plan: Mom is bringing a 24-foot trailer hooked to her truck which is going to look [awesome] sitting on the street of our city neighborhood.  I will take pictures for you guys.  We are packing everything we own into that trailer after Olivia’s birthday (!!).  Either Sunday night or Monday night, Mom, Olivia and I will make the drive back to St. Louis.  Stephen and the dog will stay with his parents and he will clean/repair the house here.  He will then come up the following Friday evening after work.

Yikes!

So I have six days to pack up an entire house.  Olivia’s birthday party is Saturday afternoon.  Mother’s Day is Sunday.  I will also be solo parenting all next week while trying to move as much of our stuff into my parents’ house as I can alone.

Packing.

Party Decoration Crafting.

Cleaning.

Also? A real estate agent is coming by [tonight] to show the house.

Oh, hi, stress!

Overwhelmed!

But excited.  So excited.

You guys?  I’m going [home] in six days.

Six.

Home.

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